Blowing my own horn

Each year, the Law Society of Ontario (LSO) awards lawyers and paralegals who have made “outstanding service and contributions” through their work. One of these, the Laura Legge Award, is presented to a woman lawyer who has exemplified leadership within the profession.

I am the 2019 recipient of this award, which was presented at a ceremony on May 22nd.  The award may carry my name on it for this year but, really, it is an acknowledgement of work done by so many who are committed to increasing access to justice for women who have been subjected to male violence.

The nomination letter and many supporting letters put together by my colleagues Carol Barkwell and Paula Wansbrough mean even more to me than the award itself. I want to thank every one of those people for taking the time to reflect on the contributions I have been able to make, working with incredible colleagues and guided always by the lived experiences of the women we serve, to improving the lives of women. The sentiments in those letters have re-energized me for the work that remains to be done.

Here is what I said at the awards ceremony:

I am deeply honoured to be receiving this award tonight. Many, many thanks to the people who put together my nomination package and to those who wrote the wonderful letters supporting my nomination.

I went to law school when I was in my mid-30s because I wanted to learn how to use this most powerful institution – the law — as a tool for justice. Although I was a feminist and a long-time political activist, I did not have women particularly in mind when I embarked on this journey. That changed very quickly as I saw the many ways the law functioned to maintain the status quo – one in which I seemed to be largely invisible — and to oppress, marginalize and discriminate against women.

New trajectory

Once my eyes were opened to that reality, my trajectory changed radically.

My working life as a lawyer has been focused entirely on the impact of the law on women’s lives; primarily in the context of violence. I have been able to take what I learned from my years of practicing law and apply it to what I do now – work for systemic change.

This work has been intense, challenging, frustrating, humbling, infuriating, discouraging, moving, inspiring and, always, interesting. I have not regretted a minute of it, and I intend to be doing it for some time yet to come.

My frustration and discouragement come from the failure of the law to respond appropriately to the violence to which so many women continue to be subjected. 

Despite a Charter of Rights and Freedoms that guarantees us equality before and under the law, a minimum of one in three of us has been or will be sexually assaulted; 25 – 30% of us have been or will be abused by our intimate partner. We still earn, on average, just 72 cents for every dollar earned by men. We are sexually harassed at work. One hundred and forty-eight (148) women and girls in Canada were killed by men last year.

And the list goes on.

When a woman who has been subjected to violence asks me: “But isn’t the law supposed to help?” I want to be able to tell her that it will, but I can’t if I want to speak truth to her.

All about the women

My inspiration comes from the countless women in this country who are subjected to misogynist violence and abuse and have the courage to say “no more” and by the frontline workers who provide tireless support to them.

It is my hope that when these voices can be heard, we will be able to change the law from a weapon used against women into a tool that women can use to empower themselves.

In honouring me with this award, you are also honouring those women. Thank you very much.

7 thoughts on “Blowing my own horn

  1. Congratulations Pam. So very well deserved. You are an inspiration to so many, lawyers and frontline workers alike.

  2. So well deserved Pam! Your community salutes you too~. Your ability to communicate so clearly and passionately about the issues is highly respected. Well done. But don’t stop 😉

  3. So great, Pam! You are very deserving and of course you used your speech to highlight the different injustices women face. Thanks.

  4. Congratulations from all of us at the Ban Righ Centre. Way to go and we’ll deserved.

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